Eh, a promise of a hug.

I'm after being promised a hug as a symbol of appreciation. I asked what type of hug I would be looking forward to. And she didn't think there was more than one type of hug! Or style of hugging, whichever term you prefer...

The Quick Hello Hug;
This is a quick embrace with only a momentary period of contact. Contact may just be with arms around the partner's body and bare minimum of the chest, and light pressure. Both parties may not stand within each other's personal space. Friendship is the relationship between these two people at nothing more.

The Good-Friend Hello Hug;
This is a little longer than the previous Quick Hello Hug. That is because of the length of time and level of comfort of both people in this relationship. They may have gone through a bit more than the previous pair and know their boundries better than the first couple. They will step in closer so the feet are pretty much touching. More intimate than the first, but still not lovey dovey.

The Man Hug;
Only used between two hetrosexual men. This can go very wrong for some guys. I found a good article on it before. Here's a video

http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-give-a-great-man-to-man-hug


The 'I miss you' Hug;
This hug can be preceeded by a little run up and a jump, depending on the circumstances. The grip of this hug is strongest and may be accompanied by the bigger lifting the smaller person up off their feet or side to side rotation (saggital rotation for those who know the lingo, or even transverse rotation). The majority of the body could be in contact. Personal space isn't an issue at all as both people would find the comfort zone and stick with it. The duration can last for much longer than the previous two hugs because of the amount of time the pair have not been with each other. This is not only for a couple in a relationship, but also close friends who genuinely missed each other.

The 'I love you' Hug;
The most loving of all hugs. The longest lasting, time wise. As much of each person's body would be in contact as possible. They feel like they are one. A lovely warmth emits from both people and they can feel more complete than before their loving warm embrace. There is not a whole load of movement as both people enjoy their body's in still contact. The duration can feel like it could last forever.

There's a sample of the hugs I can think of at the moment. Let me know of any other ones you can thin kof which I've missed out on. So for the person who owes me a hug, make your choice I know my preferred one...

And one more video;

Eh, killings in games

Eh, in that cave

Sitting in that cave is not the best place to be, but why the hell not enjoy what you have at the moment? That is a take on things which ought to be adopted at certain moments in life. In the awkward, the good, the happy etc...

Sitting alone waiting for the answers to appear is handy sometimes because it ain't tinted information you are getting. But there has to be an element of a search in the meantime. Just thinking aloud to someone and them asking the right questions, in a safe environment of course. It does actually yield results, you may not get answers but you may get questions you need to answer for yourself. They are the answers which I refer to. Thinking on the questions posed to you.

Eventually, everything makes sense and you get your answers and it all falls into place. But the length of time it'd take for that to happen is varying. That isn't great in terms of making long term plans! Aww well...

Eh, a form of stress release

The Whoopee Cushion...







It was invented in 1930 in Toronto, Canada by employees of a company called JEM Rubber Co. They were messing with some of their scrap sheets of rubbers. The guy in charge of JEM Rubber went to Samuel Adams, who ran a practical joke company, but refused to take on the new idea claiming that it was too vulgar and would never sell. JEM then offered the idea to the Johnson Smith Company who sold it with great success.

In the 90's an advancement was made on the Whoopee Cushion, a springy foam was added into the inside of it so draw air into it. And the self-inflating whoopee cushion was born (Wikipedia is a good friend of mine)

So now I got myself a small whoopee cushion, about the size of my palm. It is easy to squeeze and laugh at. It relieves muscle tension in the arm and makes me laugh on most occasions when I'm feeling child-like. These envoke the relaxation response which is a good thing...

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Eh, a blank page

Anything new has to start somewhere. Usually someone who has something to get done starts somewhere. They have a starting point. An obvious starting off point usually. That is great for them, they can go about their task nice and easily. But what about when the starting point is just as hard to get to as the solution?

Well then frustration ensues. Chaos within ones mind comes with that territory. You know something has to be done, but with the start is difficult to figure out the path is not so clear. It is like looking at a blank page going 'where do I fucking start' when faced with an exam question you are confused looking at, let alone answering. Us students have been there at some stage or other.

This is where I was. I knew I had to do something. But what it was I had to do I hadn't a clue. It was very frustrating. It was upsetting. Not knowing something is one of the more frustrating things. Not knowing what someone thinks of you after you've said somethnig nice to them, not knowing what the rules of the game you are playing in shoulder deep in it or being asked something you should know and think you know, but the words or knowledge escape you. The brain's capacity to work is dampened.

So when that happens, you go right back to that blank page you started with. How bad is that?

I came across a Facebook page which has some ingenius maths jokes. Most of which are above my capability, but the ones I do get I apreciate...

This is a video which was posted in the photos album



With thanks to; http://www.facebook.com/?ref=home#/group.php?gid=2204911489&ref=mf

Eh, Happy New 365

Fuck New Year Resolutions, unless it is to learn a new skill you never got around to getting it when you were young.

Forget New Year Resolutions, loosing weight isn't as fun as building a body is.

Go for the New Year Guidance Card, it'll draw your attention to things. It'll either comfort you or prepare you for the next 12 months.

New Year to just let things happen and have grattitude for what comes your way. It may be a blessing in diguise.

The next Decade? We'll see what happens

Eh, a Christmas present to be remembered....

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